Aup Pat, I hope this gets to you, its a story of its own me trying to send you a message lol. I just want you to know how much I still miss you both as a friend and a great neighbour. Dave still talks about how y0u were the first person that completely accepted him from the beginning, getting in the car and asking "are you all right Dave, have you been to the dogs etc" he loved them little chats. I loved our Monday nights escape, esp in the beginning before I met Dave it was an escape haha. I have kept your books and I'm sorry to say I never passed on the baby cardigans, they are my very personal keepsake from you. You made such an impact on people Pat, especially your family and Vicky misses you so much, a week never goes by without us talking about you and I don't think a day goes by when shes at home with the family when she doesn't mention you. As mothers we can only hope that when our time finally comes that our children will have the love and devotion for us as your children have for you. Pat if this message comes through I will pop onto site regularly, and update you but wont start now in case it don't work coz it takes me ages to write haha. Love and miss you Pat Love Sema and Dave xxx